Do you trust your customers?

Man On A Wire by BluElephant

Man On A Wire by BluElephant

A couple of months ago, Kate and I went to Harvard Square and stopped off at a local sandwich shop called the Harvard Square Cafe. We were working on a video series called “Social Brick and Mortar” about local retailers using the internet to get more customers.

The owner of the cafe was an Asian-American guy with glasses and a long black pony tail. He looked friendly enough – even playful -  the way he chatted with a couple from out of town, so we joined them at counter – a few stools away.

As their conversation continued, Kate and I sussed out the place, wondering if this guy even had a website. Finally, he came over to take our order.  We said we weren’t hungry but asked if he’d mind answering a few questions. He smiled.

What followed was a conversation that felt incredibly relaxed and, well… human.

We talked about Yelp and how his customers write good reviews for the cafe – without any prompting. Most of his business is repeat or from word of mouth. He has a few google ads running but does nothing else. Business is plenty and he certainly isn’t about to get on anyone’s internet bandwagon.

Then we had a surprisingly uncapitalistic exchange:

We asked for some water and he said, “Do you want bottled water or tap water in a cup?”

We sat there, taking up his time – and his counter space – without having spent a dime. And he wanted to give us a free alternative? I was dumbfounded – and curious.

Do you trust your customers?

Too often, business owners don’t mention a less expensive option because (warning: this might hurt) they don’t trust their customers.

  1. They distrust their customer’s ability to understand the need to make a profit.
  2. They distrust the idea that goodwill creates residual income.

Macro-trust (is that a word?)

“We’ve sat here for 15 minutes without spending a dime”, I said.  “When I finally asked for water you offered us a free alternative. Why?”

He answered, “Because I have two choices for water – tap water and bottled water. I can’t decide for you, because I don’t know what you want.”

His answer, as uncommonly simple as it was, seemed to reveal a deep sense of respect and trust in his customers. And by extension, a deep confidence in the laws of prosperity. We left feeling that the cafe’s success was somehow directly related to his refreshing attitude.

Where have you observed trust?

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  • gurukarm (karma_musings)
    John, do you have the address? Would love to check them out for lynch someday, couldn't find that exact name... Thx! btw, great post!
  • There is a crepe stand at Eastern Market in D.C. There are two guys working it, making some pretty delicious crepes (Banana-Nutella, thank you very much). That's all they do.

    The paying is up to you. There are four plastic wine glasses that each have a denomination of dollars written on them. You put your $10 in the $10 cup and take your change from the $5 and $1 cups. Loved it, and had to take a photo of those wine chalices with money in them.
  • You are a good man John! I like how the issue of trusting one's customer's links up with another of your recent posts about making community building efforts about one-to-one interactions. Trust and real live personal connections is what makes this whole "emerging media" thing so great. Social Networking isn't about a shortcut, it is like "reducing" a sauce in order to intensify it. Thanks for a great and inspirational post.
  • Thank you for your own quiet wisdom in sharing this, John. It is making me smile.
    HG
  • suzannetucker
    true abundance. thanks for letting me see a snippet of the world through your eyes. simple yet profound. ~ suzanne aka @zenmommy
  • Thanks, Suzanne.
  • You know, it's such a simple thing - treat people nicely and they'll treat you the same way. Trust can come in many shapes and forms (especially in the business world), yet one thing that grounds it all is the people factor, and how you treat them.

    I spoke to this guy from Boston on Monday about trust and people, and your little cafe owner falls right into that equation. Great stuff.
  • There's a great book written by Stephen Covey called the "Speed of Trust". He makes the argument that trust has an economic impact - that can be measured.
  • Holt
    "...seemed to reveal a deep sense of respect and trust in his customers."

    I'd take it a step further John, this guy had a respect for people; heck, to your point, you sure as shootin' weren't a customer by any means, and it didn't sound like you were going to be at that time.

    Some people are dialed in to the big picture, some have respect for those around them, and others have both... they 'get it'.
  • Funny thing is that we bought the bottled water.
  • Awesome story. I would file this in the "what goes around comes around" file. This store owner was comfortable with himself and his place in the universe. He did not feel the need to sell, just to be a nice person, knowing that nice things will happen to him, too. In fact, this kind of attitude is what probably gave him good reviews at Yelp, got him a spot in your blog and likely has meant a lot of on-the-street word-of-mouth referrals.
  • Trust has an amazing impact. It's tied closely with respect - respecting that your customers are smart, and in most cases, smarter than you. They're smart in how they buy (reading blogs, reviews, tweets about products) and they're smart in knowing what they need.
  • bethwarren
    Great post! When someone really knows the value of their product, they project a confidence I find..

    One of my favorite places in the world has a similar attitude. Ethel's offers "Taco Tuesdays" -- 4 tacos for $2. They know they lose money on it.. but once you experience the place, you'll be back..

    Love the last line! "sharing is evil" .. I am an evilgenius and I like to share.. so maybe that's it! haha ;-)
  • Thanks, Darth!
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